We are all walking around with masks, period!
The human nature is such a powerful source, that it can be revamped, reorginized, covered and changed in many possible ways. Each human being walks around with a mask. The human will make people see what he or she wants them to see. It can be seen as a way of creating a fake identity of yourself believing it, living it out in any possible ways and thus being ingrained in it, that it is hard for you to distinguish between the identity you created and yourselve as a person.
The beautiful thing about creating an identity is that it enables you to make an identity that will satisfy your way of doing things. You have the power to influance anyone with what you want people to believe about you. In this regard you have the power to influance anyone and any sitiation with the fake identity.
The identity you have created question`s everything about yourselve. What your lifestyle is, what your true identity is and who you are as a whole. The identity one created for him- or herself can be described to the fact that so many people have identity crisises at some point. At a tender age is a identity crisis normal, but once one loses track of who you are it becomes scary.
If one is afraid of showing your true colors it is okey to fake up an identity to make up for your horrible identity you may have. Atleast at this point you are doing it for the goodwill of your own and the people you are surrounded with. Either way, we will never reveal ourselves because it is always better to live on the safe side and protect ourselves from any sort of disfunctional treatment by society than to risk it all and live with inner peace.
Shaunn
Monday, 23 May 2011
Thursday, 19 May 2011
weird people seeking attention...how obvious.
It is amazing how the most oddest person can capture your attention even if it is just for a split second, well for others more than a second.
An incident this week made me realise that we all are attention seekers. We all have our own way of showing to the world we are alive, doing our thing and no one can take anything away from me. The most explicit person are the most obvious attention seekers. Uncontiously they will do things that would draw attention to them. For instanse, they will always make a showdown of everything that may come their way. They are seen as wild, loud, an extrovert but surely a likable figure among people. In this sense they are always noticed.
The word introvert was differently defined to me during the past few days. There are these quiet personalities spooking around. They never seem to breath a word, but certainly they have a weird way of drawing attention to themselves. It made me realise that we all want attention even if you have to resort too drastic measures. Everyone wants to be noticed, heard or talked about even if you have to compromise yourselve in order to gain it.
That being said, is simply low and very pathetic. Attention is not seeked but given. Everyone has a strong side that is envyed by someone. Weirdly enough it is usually your strong side that you doubt the most. Expose your strength and attention will be given. God made us to stand out from all the rest, so use your God-given strength to gain the attention you whole- heartedly seek and use it too your own advantage.
An incident this week made me realise that we all are attention seekers. We all have our own way of showing to the world we are alive, doing our thing and no one can take anything away from me. The most explicit person are the most obvious attention seekers. Uncontiously they will do things that would draw attention to them. For instanse, they will always make a showdown of everything that may come their way. They are seen as wild, loud, an extrovert but surely a likable figure among people. In this sense they are always noticed.
The word introvert was differently defined to me during the past few days. There are these quiet personalities spooking around. They never seem to breath a word, but certainly they have a weird way of drawing attention to themselves. It made me realise that we all want attention even if you have to resort too drastic measures. Everyone wants to be noticed, heard or talked about even if you have to compromise yourselve in order to gain it.
That being said, is simply low and very pathetic. Attention is not seeked but given. Everyone has a strong side that is envyed by someone. Weirdly enough it is usually your strong side that you doubt the most. Expose your strength and attention will be given. God made us to stand out from all the rest, so use your God-given strength to gain the attention you whole- heartedly seek and use it too your own advantage.
Wednesday, 13 April 2011
Its total crap!
Does love really seem like a hypotheses?
What is the meaning of it anyway? How desparate do you need to be to feel it, open yourself up to it and expose your true nature to it?
One fact remains forever it is something beautiful, something that makes you smile when you wake up, a feeling that makes you want to live, a nature of undescribable pleasure and adventure. Love is a simple meaning that carries the weight of many emotions, actions and thoughts.
In trying out for love is not something that you try to do, but its a nature of the humankind. It is a feeling you get a long the way when you are hanging out with friends, caught of gaurd in your wildest moments or just a long intense stare across the dancefloor. Despite the situation you find yourself in, it is definitely not something that you planned for.
However you come accross the incident of love it is sometimes missread in so many ways. Ways that can make you feel like an idiot, a stalker that fell inlove with a simple flirt because it was confused with an hidden agenda.
To prevent such shit from happening is simple. Do not read into things so much. Accept the circumstances as they are. It prevents you from getting hurt right? Or you could get your ass burned for even trying to hard. Take things lightly at first sight, for all you know there might be an underlying dark cloud among those bundles of smiles.
If acting in love, fuck do it right! Get to the point and stop all the admin work, it just wastes time. Otherwise prevention is better than cure.........Do not lead someone on or fell for someone that made an ass out of you.
What is the meaning of it anyway? How desparate do you need to be to feel it, open yourself up to it and expose your true nature to it?
One fact remains forever it is something beautiful, something that makes you smile when you wake up, a feeling that makes you want to live, a nature of undescribable pleasure and adventure. Love is a simple meaning that carries the weight of many emotions, actions and thoughts.
In trying out for love is not something that you try to do, but its a nature of the humankind. It is a feeling you get a long the way when you are hanging out with friends, caught of gaurd in your wildest moments or just a long intense stare across the dancefloor. Despite the situation you find yourself in, it is definitely not something that you planned for.
However you come accross the incident of love it is sometimes missread in so many ways. Ways that can make you feel like an idiot, a stalker that fell inlove with a simple flirt because it was confused with an hidden agenda.
To prevent such shit from happening is simple. Do not read into things so much. Accept the circumstances as they are. It prevents you from getting hurt right? Or you could get your ass burned for even trying to hard. Take things lightly at first sight, for all you know there might be an underlying dark cloud among those bundles of smiles.
If acting in love, fuck do it right! Get to the point and stop all the admin work, it just wastes time. Otherwise prevention is better than cure.........Do not lead someone on or fell for someone that made an ass out of you.
Wednesday, 23 February 2011
Friendship...fake and maybe for keeps.
In this bitchy world of today do you really have true friends?
It is such a cleche.....friendship is based on honesty, trust and acceptance. Does those factors really take place in the modern era? As for honesty I personally have been backstabbed so many times its not even funny. As far as I can remember my trust was betrayed and that made me build a cage around myself. but than again im slowly but surely out growing that cage, because it keeps you from exploring yourself and letting people into your heart and life. Trust is the core of any relationship and letting someone into your heart is a personal risk.
Honesty is so nasty. Being truely honest and open is sometimes shocking and devastating. Everyone has their own personal issues their struggling with and being honest about anything and everything entails alot of will power. One always consider your friends reaction to the action, the judgement calls, your relationship with your friend and many other critial limitations you set for yourself. So now you ask yourself is it worth being honest about something, despite the fact that you might loose your friend? Honestly, yes if one is not truely upfront and honest the friendship will be based on a lie as you are building up a wall of lies to your friend. Being dishonest keeps your friend from exploring you as a person, as you do not submit to what is bothering you or you may find a problem with.
Honesty can sometimes be directly linked to acceptance. One must accept each other no matter what. Okey so we all have a criteria, standards and certain expactations as to how are friends should be. But are we creating an avatar or are we simply out of touch with reality? We live in a diverse world....people from different social, political, economical and educational backrounds. It is sometimes highly unlikely that we will find someone that will measure up to our own standards, well only we who set the standards can do it. We are all unique individuals, we simply have to ambrace it, otherwise living in extreme hate will be our calling.
Having A TRUE FRIEND is like searching for a scarce beautiful flower. If you find it, hold onto it cause you may never find it again, but for now enjoy, embrace and accept the once you hav now. You may be surprised in what you discover in the once you have.
It is such a cleche.....friendship is based on honesty, trust and acceptance. Does those factors really take place in the modern era? As for honesty I personally have been backstabbed so many times its not even funny. As far as I can remember my trust was betrayed and that made me build a cage around myself. but than again im slowly but surely out growing that cage, because it keeps you from exploring yourself and letting people into your heart and life. Trust is the core of any relationship and letting someone into your heart is a personal risk.
Honesty is so nasty. Being truely honest and open is sometimes shocking and devastating. Everyone has their own personal issues their struggling with and being honest about anything and everything entails alot of will power. One always consider your friends reaction to the action, the judgement calls, your relationship with your friend and many other critial limitations you set for yourself. So now you ask yourself is it worth being honest about something, despite the fact that you might loose your friend? Honestly, yes if one is not truely upfront and honest the friendship will be based on a lie as you are building up a wall of lies to your friend. Being dishonest keeps your friend from exploring you as a person, as you do not submit to what is bothering you or you may find a problem with.
Honesty can sometimes be directly linked to acceptance. One must accept each other no matter what. Okey so we all have a criteria, standards and certain expactations as to how are friends should be. But are we creating an avatar or are we simply out of touch with reality? We live in a diverse world....people from different social, political, economical and educational backrounds. It is sometimes highly unlikely that we will find someone that will measure up to our own standards, well only we who set the standards can do it. We are all unique individuals, we simply have to ambrace it, otherwise living in extreme hate will be our calling.
Having A TRUE FRIEND is like searching for a scarce beautiful flower. If you find it, hold onto it cause you may never find it again, but for now enjoy, embrace and accept the once you hav now. You may be surprised in what you discover in the once you have.
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